How do you know if you’re being run by fear?
I have a very easy test for you. Look at what’s going on around you right now and ask yourself the following questions:
- Are you finding that, no matter how much mindset work/affirmations/journaling you’re doing, you still find yourself lurching from one crisis to another?
- Are your friends/family/kids getting sick frequently, forcing you to stop focusing on what you need to be doing?
- Are you getting sick?
- Are you hurting yourself?
- Do you feel ridiculously busy, but also like you’re not getting shit done?
- Or do you find yourself staring at the screen completely blocked, feeling as though you don’t have even one meaningful thing to say?
If you can answer yes to any of these questions… hold up!
You are on the fear train, for shizzle, for sure.
Here’s the thing…
When real life stuff happens that puts you out of whack, or stops you from doing the things that keep your vibration high…
When you’re in DOING mode instead of BEING mode and trying to bulldoze through to the other side…
It doesn’t matter how far you think you want to get.
It doesn’t matter how many affirmations you’re doing.
It doesn’t matter how much lip service you’re giving to “claiming what you want”.
Shit is going to go down.
Because your reality is determined not by what you’re saying or doing, but who you are BEING and how you are FEELING.
Action obviously has a part to play, but that’s your 20%.
So how do you get out of this mess?
Choose to be honest with yourself.
Acknowledge the part your fears and doubts have to play in you NOT creating the business/life/relationship you want.
Then start to choose.
I’m a writer, so my “fix it” can be found in my journal, with a little formula that looks like this:
Step 1: Acknowledge where I am.
Step 2: State where I really want to be.
Step 3: Decide I’m taking the aligned action required to get there.
Then rinse and repeat.
It doesn’t matter where you are in your business or life right now, unless you’re 100% happy with everything that’s going on.Unless you’re able to step into a deeper level of purpose, which will ultimately lead you to realise a greater level of success.
Of course, your success is determined by your metrics, not mine, but a hugely important start, middle and end point for me is HAPPINESS.
If you haven’t got that total happiness, I can pretty much guarantee you’re stuck in the Chaos Zone. Your coasting isn’t a symptom of how great your life is, but how scared you are to be seen.
Be heard and go deep. Don’t be a coaster.
If you’re ready to start releasing those fears, finding that happiness, and tapping into the success you’re looking for, now is the perfect time for you to join my 5-day visibility challenge. Sign up here.
Faith + Action = Miracles