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Why I Have Your Back, but You’ll Never be in My Gang

Why I Have Your Back, but You’ll Never be in My Gang

It’s weird, but I feel a little bit nervous writing this message to you, however as a person who is committed to listening more deeply to her own intuitive hits, this is something that I had to write. I expect this to trigger as it’s certainly not the flow of the tide, where the #girlgangs hang out with their tribes, but maybe that’s the point. This is for anyone who’s not in the gang or perhaps has unwittingly formed one in response to not wanting to be standing over there anyway.  Let me explain. When I was a kid, particularly in secondary school, teenage girls went around in groups of three, specifically so that two could gang up on one, leaving someone out in the cold every other week, just because…. I didn’t really have a gang. I was what some may call a drifter. I wasn’t pretty enough to hang out with ‘The Plastics’ all the time, not nerdy or intelligent enough to hang with the bright kids, not naughty enough….You get the picture. I was kind of average at most things and slightly better than average at dance, drama, English, sports and shoplifting.  This meant that depending on what was going on at the time, I would be ‘good enough’ for a period to be wanted on one team or...

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What are you striving for?

Today I've got a really simple question for you and that question is, what are you striving for?  What is your goal?  What is your big vision?  That answer should be on the tip of your tongue.  You should know with absolute pinpoint accuracy why it is you're getting out of bed every single morning to do the job that you do, for both your community and for yourself.  If you don't know that answer, I'm going to make the suggestion that you may just need to be simply reminding yourself and writing down every single day what your big goal is. The reason this is important is that it means that you don't lose time on irrelevant stuff. So, what are the things that will keep you on track on your message?  Here is my answer: https://youtu.be/9UBLFncI96Q I think that when you're not really connected to your bigger vision and why it is you're doing what you're doing, it's really easy to spend three hours scrolling through Facebook.  It's really easy to not create the video content that you said you would do for your Facebook page.  It's really easy not to call the guy that you were going to speak to about Google Ads, because you're not connected deeply and your big vision is not at the...

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Should we be reading everything?

Should we be reading everything?

Today, we are discussing whether we should be reading more or not.  Many of the mentors that I subscribe to believe completely opposite ends of the spectrum.  You have some people that are telling us that we should read and devour every single book that has ever been written, then at the other end of scale you have people saying, particularly during creation time, that they don't want to be reading anything because they want to make sure that all of their ideas are coming from their heart, rather than being influenced by what the latest trends are and what other people are doing. You then have some people in the middle of that saying that we should just be reading one book at a time until we have mastered and implemented all of its lessons. Where do I sit on that scale?  Learn from the below vlog. https://youtu.be/MK0jSgj8XlE Actually, it's a little bit of everything. I am an avid reader, although I don't have a huge amount of time to read, so what I find is I mainly listen to books on Audible whilst I'm doing other things.  I listen to a lot.  Probably not one a week, but maybe one every couple of weeks, so that's one end of my personal reading spectrum. Then I have times where...

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