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We need to talk about money

We need to talk about money

    Earlier this week, I started listening to the book The Millionaire Next Door and to say that it had had a profound effect on me would be totally understating it. And as always it was coming at the perfect time for me. No, not just because I have another £30K in taxes to pay next month, but because as my brand and community has been growing, I’ve been left questioning my purpose. How do I want to show up? What’s truly important to me? I’ve been noticing how my addiction to my phone (and analysing my Instagram insights) seemed to be sucking the joy and the life out of me. As I focused in on what other people were thinking about me, I felt less capable. Less than “good enough”. Less. Less. Less. Which has also been challenging, because I’ve been showing up more, and I’ve been presented with the most amazing opportunities in the shape of: Ideal clients Podcast interviews (including this brilliant one on the Not Another Mummy Podcast) Content collaborations Gifts You name it, it’s been coming at me thick and fast. But I was still feeling less and less full. I was slipping into caring WAY TOO MUCH about what other people think of me, which is a recipe for disaster when it comes to...

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We need to talk about money

We need to talk about money

Last week I did something that I think in the past would have caused me quite a bit of shame - I backed out of something for my personal life that I had committed to doing. I still paid for the service and the person’s time, but I cancelled the meeting where I would have ended up spending another £500. And I told her the reason why. I told her that I would have been spending that money to impress her, and that felt anything but limitless. What would she think of me? What did I think of myself? Surely this isn’t abundant thinking. Earlier this week, I started listening to the book The Millionaire Next Door and to say that it had had a profound effect on me would be totally understating it. And as always it was coming at the perfect time for me. No, not just because I have another £30K in taxes to pay next month, but because as my brand and community has been growing, I’ve been left questioning my purpose. How do I want to show up? What’s truly important to me?   I’ve been noticing how my addiction to my phone (and analysing my Instagram insights) seemed to be sucking the joy and the life out of me. As I focused in on what other people were thinking about me, I felt less capable....

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Stop following people who are no longer serving you

Stop following people who are no longer serving you

I’ve had so many people coming to me recently feeling triggered because leaders who have previously helped them and been influential in their growth have suddenly changed their message. If this sounds like you, my latest Facebook Live is here to help. Watch the replay here >>   To catch these conversations LIVE, make sure you’re following along here.   Or here’s the scannable version >> It’s ok to unfollow people you are no longer aligned with I've had people say to me, "I can't unfollow because I feel like I'm being disloyal." Or, "I can't unfollow because it makes me feel weird." I’m here to tell you that it is making you feel weird listening to stuff that you are no longer energetically aligned to. It is stopping you in your tracks and causing you to procrastinate, because the messages you are receiving go against everything that raises your energetic level and helps you step out of procrastination and into action. Public service announcement: some people are there for a reason, some people are there for a season, and some people are there for a lifetime. Know the difference. It doesn't make them wrong and it doesn't make you wrong if their evolution is no longer in alignment...

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