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Sick of Your Own B.S? Here’s How to Finally Take Action and Build the Life You Keep Talking About

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Sick of Your Own B.S? Here’s How to Finally Take Action and Build the Life You Keep Talking About

Let me ask you, do you sometimes hear yourself wanging on and realise you’re bored of listening to the same old excuses,  justifications and reasons for not following through? 

Are you sick of your own bullshit yet?

You know what I mean.

All the journaling.
The vision boards.
The deep downloads.
The “I just need to get more clarity first…” loop.

Which don’t get me wrong you know, I know there are a time and a place for all of these things. 

But when you’re tired. 

This level of tired. 

It’s not because you’ve been doing all the things, but because you’ve been circling your dreams with zero traction.

Here’s what I’ve seen again and again in the coaching world:

🔥 Women with powerful ideas and no action.
🔥 Coaches with bold visions but no structure.
🔥 Healers who want six figures… but are still giving away their time for free.

Sound familiar?

The Truth About Why You’re Still Stuck

We tell ourselves it’s about strategy.
We say, “I just need to figure out my niche,” or “Once my website’s perfect, then I’ll launch.”

But what’s really happening?

You’re thinking instead of executing.
You’re hiding in over-prepping, over-planning, and “processing.”

And that is the new procrastination.

I say this with love because I’ve been her too.

That woman who keeps telling the same story about why she hasn’t launched yet.
Who’s been doing shadow work for fifteen years and still hasn’t moved.
Who’s watching everyone else go big while convincing herself she’s just “waiting for alignment.”

It’s not alignment you’re missing.
It’s momentum.

What To Do When You’re Tired of Hearing Yourself Talk

Here’s what I want you to do right now. No delays. Just clarity.

1️⃣ Pick your big, scary, juicy goal.
Want to make £100K this year? Launch your group program? Ditch your 9–5?

Name it.

2️⃣ Identify the first problem you need to solve.
If you want to be a £100K coach but you’re not certified yet, your first problem is becoming a coach.
If you’re already certified but no one’s buying? You need to solve the “how do I attract aligned clients consistently?” problem.

Don’t try to solve all 50 problems that might show up in a year.
Just handle the first one.

3️⃣ Put a time limit on planning.
30 minutes. 60 max. 1 day. Just pick your time, be specific. 

 Then? You act.

4️⃣ Execute, review, refine. Repeat.

Create the Canva.
Send the email.
Post the offer.
Book the call.

Move.


That’s the game. That’s business.
It’s not always sexy.
But it’s how you get the life you’ve been pretending to meditate on.

The Cost of Waiting for the Perfect Plan

Can I tell you about my biggest month ever?

Over £400K in sales.
And you know what I didn’t do?
I didn’t spend six months mapping out every possible scenario before I started.

And so you can imagine my surprise when halfway through the launch, when things were going better than I had ever imagined, I realised in real time, that I didn’t have the capacity to coach everyone on my own.


So I hired a coach in the middle of it.

So I didn’t have to stop the flow. 

It wasn’t perfect, but I went with it. 

The lesson I learned? You solve the next problem when it shows up, it doesn’t matter if you don’t have EVERYTHING eventually anticipated in advance. 

See a problem. 

Deal with the problem. 

Move on.

When you try to pre-solve every possible challenge frequently you end up stuck. Paralyzed by “what ifs.”

Execution is the only thing that builds momentum.

Business Isn’t About Feeling Ready, It’s About Deciding

You don’t have to feel “ready.”
You just have to decide.

You don’t need a perfect plan.
You need a bias toward action.

So if you’re sick of hearing your own excuses…
If you know you’re meant for more…
If you’re done waiting for life to start…

It’s time to stop talking about your purpose and start living it.

See you inside.

With infinite love,
Suzy x

Faith + Action = Miracles.

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