Highlights
- 03:05 — What “fuck it energy” really means and why the people who win are willing to bet on themselves without guarantees.
- 06:58 — The hidden cost of staying stuck and why preparing feels safer than taking action, but is far more expensive.
- 09:07 — Why confidence is built through action, not before it, and how imperfect action creates faster growth than perfect plans.
Quotes
- “Nothing changes until you start betting on yourself without asking for a guarantee.”
- “The risk isn’t starting, the risk is wasting another year preparing instead of being on the playing field.”
- “Fuck it, energy gets you through the door that confidence will eventually walk into.”
Download the full transcript here
How to Win, Every Time
This episode is for the coach, creator, or entrepreneur who knows they are capable of more but hesitates at the moment it matters most.
I break down exactly how I win every time, and it has nothing to do with being fearless, perfectly confident, or endlessly prepared.
If you’ve been overthinking your next move, waiting to feel ready, or stuck in preparation mode instead of playing the game, this conversation will put you back into motion.

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