…and call in the life and business you’ve always dreamed of
Have you ever noticed that the people that we are drawn to in life and business always have some level of self-acceptance that we aspire to have too?
For me, this proves that if you want to be successful, you have to be aligned with your vision.
And if you’re not – because you’re worried about what other people might think, or because deep down you don’t believe you’re worthy, or you want to be grateful for what you have right now – then there’s no chance of you getting to where you want to be.
Some people call these things limiting beliefs, others call it the upper limits, and yet others talk of self sabotaging thoughts… but one thing is for sure:
If you desire abundance – you have to believe that you are both worthy and capable of accepting it into your life.
And an inability to accept that you deserve everything that you are working towards can be detrimental to your success. As far as the Law of Attraction goes, if you are aligning yourself with 5K a month… well then you might just achieve 5K a month, but you certainly won’t achieve 10, or 50, or 100.
If you’re not showing the universe that you are ready and willing to achieve your goals, accept more income, and make more impact, then it won’t answer your calls for more. You have to match the frequency.
Lucky for you, I’ve racked my brains to dive deep into this subject and define two ways in which you can get into alignment with your goals.
Read on to find out what they are…
- Go beyond
And my first tip for you, whenever you are setting an intention or a goal, is to know what you want, set that as your minimum standard, and THEN figure out what even more would look like. People call this good, better, best, but what’s really important here is that you have your good and your best. People often make the mistake of only align for the good, which means they are only aligned for the minimum standard. And so psychologically the best feels beyond them. And frequency wise, there’s no chance of them excelling because they aren’t a vibrational match for anything beyond what their brain has already accepted. You can only hit your minimum if that is what you are aligned to. So the first step is to align to your best goal – the goal beyond the goal.
Then, as soon as you get close to your first target, it’s time to realign to a higher number. So for example, if you’re aiming for 30K a month, and you get to 26K… 30K is too close and it’s time to go for 40. You need to always be striving for more. And if 30K feels impossible now, that’s fine, but it won’t once you get to 26, and you’ll have clarity on how to get there. The mind brain is a problem solving machine. You need to make sure that it has space to start solving new things. So you’re creating space for continual expansion. It also means that you don’t get fixated about your numbers because they are constantly growing.
- Switch up the story
The second thing I want you to do is investigate. What are the stories that you’re telling yourself? Are those stories true? The answer is always no. What is the new story that you want to create? And all you’re doing there is working at this at the conscious level of transformation, which is extremely freaking powerful. How you accelerate the speed at which you are dropping the baggage and creating space for the new expansion, is of course by including the subconscious transformation, physical transformation, and energetic transformation. I want you to ask yourself, why am I saying this? What is the story beyond that feeling of disease about why you are not worthy of receiving and holding the space, get your journal out, and literally just ask yourself, why does it not feel safe for me to continue to expand and write down every single story that comes up. By going to the root cause and simply shining a light on the stories that you are telling about your worthiness, about your deservingness, about your ability, you immediately start to create space between the story and your true essence. And your true essence is limitless and powerful, and it’s absolutely capable of embracing all of your soul’s desires. Your soul never gives you a task or a desire or a wish that is not supposed to be yours. Your mind will tell you that you want stuff that you’re not in alignment with. Your mind will tell you stuff that is just really not your wheelhouse that you need to focus on. And so being able to differentiate between the two is important. Doing this exercise is what will help you make long lasting changes that enable you to make a quantum leap.
And there you have it. I really freaking hope this helps you get clarity and align with all your heart desires.
If you want to check out Episode 54 of The Limitless Life Experience Podcast, where I talk some more on this topic – you can do that here.
All the love,
Faith + Action = Miracles